Under-commit and Over-deliver

"Before you say yes to someone, remember, it’s far better to say no than to say yes and cancel later down the line."


An Old Friend - June 2018

Do you over-commit?

What happens when you over-commit

Over-committing is actually quite normal.

We get excited about the idea of a plan, either because we make it ourselves or we're convinced into it. Then, when the time comes, we don't want to follow through and end up cancelling.

The issue here is that we're not really asking ourselves whether we truly want to do the thing in the first place. Worse still, we make plans in the heat of excitement, only to back out as the date approaches.

Don’t over-commit. Be spontaneous, but don’t agree to or create plans unless you’re genuinely sure about them. And once you do – stick to it.

Under-commit instead.

Choose to under-commit and over-deliver 

Choose to over-deliver

When you make a plan – honour it.

Over-delivering can also mean being spontaneous and stepping up in those moments when a close friend or family member needs you the most. This way, you build a reputation for being reliable.

And while you might not always be available, when you are, you're giving your full effort.

Holding off from making plans isn’t easy, which is why any plans you do make should come with full commitment. Choose to over-deliver. Give your all when called upon, and then step back until next time.


Whilst you may not always be available - when called upon you give it your all. 

A life lived with the attitude of under-commit and over-deliver leads to a successful life. Your commitments are honoured, or not made at all. People come to rely on you. No let-downs, no broken expectations.

Simple. Easy. A pleasure to deal with.

Strive for this – it’s what I’m personally working on.

Location: Birmingham, UK

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